Many parents struggle with knowing when the right time is to start potty training. There is also undue pressure to toilet train children too early. So when is your child ready to start potty training?
Ideally, they should be older than 2 years of age and be able to remove their pants and underwear without assistance. They should also be able to get up and off the toilet independently. If they cannot do either, then you can work with them on these skills. Having a tall and sturdy stool where it is easy for them to get up onto the toilet with their feet supported is very helpful (see link to review of toilet accoutrements). A toilet seat insert to support their bottom so they are not sinking in to the toilet makes it easier for them to relax to properly empty their bladder and bowels. Or if your child prefers, a small potty-training toilet that is low to the ground and does not flush (which can be scary for some kids) makes toilet training easier.
Constipation is a bladder’s worst enemy. So, ensuring your child is having daily, soft bowel movements is key to potty training success. Hard stools or withholding of stool can lead to bladder dysfunction and ultimately problems like bladder infections or incomplete emptying of the bladder. Constipation management is important.
Is there at least 2 hours of dryness in between diapers and they are showing signs of interest in potty training? If so, your child sounds ready to begin potty training. Taking them regularly to the toilet every 30 minutes to 1 hour initially, then stretching it gradually to more than 2-3 hours will help prevent urine holding. Do not force them into training if they are not interested. This can cause urine holding and constipation. Praising them and rewarding them with stickers, small toys, or something meaningful can help motivate them during the training process (Potty Progress Chart). Making the bathroom a fun place to be where they play with bubbles or pinwheels on the toilet, play with small toys or color can keep them more interested in using the bathroom. If they’re still having wet diapers less than every 2 hours, waiting a bit longer until they do will help to decrease the frustration with toilet training.